Fair and Equal Divorce pg 90

I used Sharon Wortman on my first book because that was the name I was born with. My second book I decided to use my married name .

I believe that love is the strongest force on earth that love doesn't die because people die love survives death. When someone dies you don't quit loving them and they don't quit loving you . Love and good that a person does while they are a live lives past death.

People hand love and hate down from one generation just like they hand money down through the generations .

Everyone can be a good person and leave their family a rich legacy of love . I am lucky I can look back a few generations into my family and what I see is good people doing good things for themselves and others .

My book shows how children can benifit from counciling during a divorce having someone to talk their feelings over with can help a child through a divorce.

Counciling can help bopth parents not to belame the other but to work together for the good of the child.

This book also has a section for step parents so they can be nice to the child and help their marriage as will as their relationship with their step children.

If you want to hand love down through the generations going to church helps it gives you a idea what real love really is Christ dying on thwe cross was real love for us he died so our sins might be forgiven Christ talked about love all of the time .

You can become the first in your family to pass love down through the generations . You just have to decide for your self that love is stronger then hate and that love is the strongest force in the world.

You should also recognize the good you do today will live years after you die . You can read this website to find places to go and voulunteer to do good things.

My book says divorce happens don't belame either parent love both parents . It may take years to for give something that goes wrong during this time but love everyone .

 Grandparents should continue to be a part of a childs life even after a divorce . Even if the child opnly sees one parent the other grandparents will contribute to the childs will being as will.

A lot of people who think like I do have found their own way to serve God.

Fair and equal divorce says children are not property they belong to both parents plus all of their grandparents it says never take away the other spouse unless they are really a bad person.

It says two people can raise a child cheaper then one parent can . It gives examples of how to raise children on a very tight budget . How to get clothing discounts . How to get along and take your children to parent teachers conferences together that way if their are problems both parents know so they can encourage their child to improve.

Your x's brother or sister may want to take your kids for a family get together with their kids let them go what is hurting our children the most is being taught to hate a parent hate destroys people love will always build a bridge to our future kids need to know they can harm themselves by hating one of their own family.